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Recognition of problem gambling
can be extremely difficult. So much so that gambling has been called the
invisible, or hidden, addiction. It is difficult to recognise gambling
simply because it is easily hidden, unlike alcohol and drug problems.
It is not uncommon for the spouse of a problem gambler to be shocked to
find out about their spouses gambling. Spouses sometimes suspect infidelity
only to find a gambling problem instead.
These are some warning signs:
- Preoccupation with gambling
or gambling related activities
- Absence of other hobbies
and activities
- Avoidance of social engagements
- Unrealistic beliefs about
winning
- Reporting only wins and
never losses
- Chasing losses in an attempt
to get it back
- Avoiding answering questions
about gambling behaviour
- Borrowing money from multiple
sources
- Selling off property
- Difficulty getting and keeping
employment
- Alienation of friends and
family
- Spending very little time
with friends and family
- Mood swings
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Gamblers Anonymous
20 Questions
- Do you lose time from work
due to gambling?
- Is gambling making your
home life unhappy?
- Is gambling affecting your
reputation?
- Have you ever felt remorse
after gambling?
- Do you ever gamble to get
money with which to pay debts or to otherwise solve financial difficulties?
- Does gambling cause a decrease
in your ambition or efficiency?
- After losing, do you feel
you must return as soon as possible and win back your losses?
- After a win, do you have
a strong urge to return and win more?
- Do you often gamble until
your last dollar is gone?
- Do you ever borrow to finance
your gambling?
- Have you ever sold any
real or personal property to finance gambling?
- Are you reluctant to use
"gambling money" for normal expenditure?
- Does gambling make you
careless of the welfare of your family?
- Do you ever gamble longer
than you planned?
- Do you ever gamble to escape
worry or trouble?
- Have you ever committed,
or considered committing, an illegal act to finance gambling?
- Does gambling cause you
to have difficulty in sleeping?
- Do arguments, disappointments
or frustrations create within you the urge to gamble?
- Do you have an urge to
celebrate any good fortune by a few hours of gambling?
- Have you ever considered
suicide as a result of your gambling?
If you answer yes to any of
these questions you need to seriously consider the possibility that you
have, or may be developing, a problem with your gambling. Consider seeking
help! Remember, the sooner you do the better!
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